Woman Offended After Husband Asks Her To Wait Outside While He Experiences Their First Home Alone

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Dec 4, 2021 11:30 AM EST

If any of you still thought that couples are happily ever after the wedding, you thought wrong. The honeymoon phase is over, kids, and now real life begins. In a recent "Am I The A$$hole?" thread, OP seems to be the kinda dude that isn't really feeling his wife anymore. Because he bought their first home with his own money, he asked her if he could have a moment alone in the house before she walked in. She was rightfully pissed about it. Like, dude, you're married - wouldn't you want to experience the milestone together? Redditors unanimously decided that OP was in the wrong, but what do you think about the situation? Let us know in the comments. 

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  • 01
    Font - r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/yikyakpaw 14 hours ago 3 2 2 O 3 5 3 A AITA for wanting to walk into my first home without my wife? My wife [25F] and I [27M] have been married six months now. I have a good job in sales, and have managed to save enough to get together a deposit for a house. It is true that my parents have helped me out quite a bit too financially.
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    The first home is exciting! Let's see how our guy manages this f*ck this one up. 

  • 02
    Font - My wife has not been employed very consistently. She has worked as a model, but hasn't saved much at all. I bought the house, and the estate agent handed over the keys to me. My wife wasn't there at the hand-over. I was obviously super excited to show her the house, and for us to start our lives together.
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    Sounds like a cute couple. Hubby in a neat sales job, wifey in the modelling industry, very cool. What could go wrong? 

  • 03
    Font - We drove up to the house yesterday. I said to her while we sat in the car outside: 'is it OK if I go in alone first, just so I can have a moment alone in my first home? I felt that it was a Significant Moment in my life, and I wanted to experience it alone, even just for 30 seconds.
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    Smile - My wife was upset about this and has been off with me ever since. We have moved some of our stuff in but she's clearly pissed. I think she's being selfish. My brother says I am being ridiculous.
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    Smile - Brilliant_Jewel1924 · 13h · edited 9h O & 102 More YTA...and you know what else? Since it's YOUR house, you get to do all of the cleaning; maintenance; etc. (She's just a dumb model so she probably couldn't figure those things out, anyway.)
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    Product - justkillintime99 · 14h S 2 @2 S Colo-rectal Surgeon [38] YTA - why did you get married if you don't want to experience life with your wife?
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    Font - ZealandRedSquirrel · 14h YTA. It's a big moment for you. Probably for her too. Even if it's not a big moment for her. Sharing in each other's big moments is usually a big part of marriage. You telling her to wait in the car is a huge and unnecessary slight. Why are you even married if you're still thinking in terms of mine and yours.
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    Font - Eastern-Water9701 · 13h Asshole Enthusiast [7] I think now it might be a big moment for her...the moment she realised she's married a guy who wants to be single.
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    Handwriting - KittySnowpants · 13h Asshole Aficionado [14] YTA. You keep talking about "my house", as if you were not married at the time of purchase. It's your wife's house too, bro. You are the one being selfish.
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    Mammal - fiendishthingysaurus · 14h YTA. The home is for both of you.
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